I am a self-confessed lover of American Idol/X-Factor, why? Because I love witnessing the self-transformation of each person brave even to actualise their dream to sing. Check out Jahmene Douglas ? a grocery shop shelf worker. ?Never sung in public before and his rendition of ?At Last? by Etta James:-You Tube Video: ?http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V-xndZZjM4A
If that is not inspirational, I do not know what is. ?This song truly resonated as it was the song we played at our wedding. ?The lyrics speak for themselves. ?It got me thinking about the conversations I facilitate on a daily basis with people in the vocation of coaching. ?When you play a part in people actualizing their dreams, it truly is one of the most rewarding vocations on the planet.
People have often strived to achieve some form of ?before and after? transformation:-
1. ?Leave their employ, go out on their own and live their passion
2. ?Transform their relationship to their financial domain
3. ?Meet their match, fall in love and get married
4. ?Achieve their ideal weight
But for this to occur you need to let go of the identity that keeps the dysfunction in place. ?OR not. ?Let me explain:-
1. ?Those that have been single for years and yet state that they want a relationship do not realise that they are more committed to being single
2. ?Those that continue to feed scarcity and worry where finances are concerned. ?Those that keep playing the ?money drama? card with their finances, LOVE their finances being in the state they?re in
3. ?Those that hate their job and?want to go out on their own but sell out to not knowing what they are passionate about, LOVE staying in the job they hate
4. ?Those that stay in a marriage that is destroying their soul stating that they are staying because of the children, LOVE being in a destructive relationship
4. ?Those who state that they hate being overweight and yet do not lose the weight, actually LOVE being overweight
5. ?Those that hang out in confusion, who say they want clarity, LOVE abdicating responsibility in the ?I don?t know? ? how convenient!
6. ?Those that have waited for years to finally have the courage to go out on their own and then use excuses to not actualise their dream, LOVE staying in ?procrastination/excuse land?
7. ?Those who make their primary partner wrong, stating that they?want to improve this relationship actually LOVE making their partner wrong
8. ?Those who say they operate at a high degree of integrity usually do not realise they are doing THEIR VERSION of integrity getting their version of results
9. ?Those who use busy as their excuse to not take time out for themselves LOVE dishonouring themselves
10. ?Those that say they are committed but live in the world of ?want? LOVE selling out to what is possible
If any of the above holds some resistance for you, this is intentional. ?Where you expend the most energy is a function of where your commitment lies.? If this is complaint, then this is what you are more committed to! ?I specialize in what I term the ?default identity?, the disempowered state. ?I personally know every nuance of this identity integrally. ?One must OWN where one is operating, preferably with a sense of humour before they can truly MASTER what is happening at a ?causal level?.
When will you achieve your ?AT LAST? moment??
If you are interested in finally experiencing the transformation you want then consider calling one of the Freefall Team on 09 488 6764 or book in for a 1 hour free no obligation consultation session to hear more about the Freefall Experience Seminars:-
http://www.freefallexperience.com/email/3-day-seminar-sep2012.htm?
Source: http://www.freefallselfimprovement.com/at-last/
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